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Archive for June 11th, 2012

India Dating

Monday, June 11th, 2012

The India dating sites or elsewhere are full of all kinds of personalities. You find guys and gals, sometimes too touchy, awkward, emotionally tuned-off people. Their profiles may reflect what they want to be thought of rather than what they actually are. That is why you may come across a guy who might have said he was six feet, and when you go find him, he is actually five feet or less. The problem is with the image of an ideal mate in our head, the sort where you have a list of all qualities and want all those qualities, shining in that person.

It never worked, and never will. If you want to find anyone of that sort, your trails will end bitterly. On the other hand, you may get people with values and qualities that resonate with you, and so the relationship matures and deepens.

Online or in real world, you can not just go on ventilating about your home, your pet, your interests, your hobbies, your pet peeves, your not-so-pet peeves. You give an impression of being full of yourself, which you actually are, and that pisses off the girl. There are moments where, in silence, she catches a shimmer in your eye, she observes the glow of joy and thinks, yeah, this is the man I am ready to spend life with. You have to give into those moments in order to build a relationship.

Some people have a habit of blowing slight disagreements into a full blown fight above everything under the sun. You find folks aggressive and confrontation with people they are attracted to or want to engage. It is so obvious, but people fly off the handle most of the time, especially when the other person voices a slight disagreement. Then the whole thing is good as gone. Relationship-building on the dating sites have given people the chance to get to know the other person before committing oneself fully and crying over it later. That’s huge in India dating.

Dating sites in India have brought a shift in attitudes, matchmaking and how the relationship goes from get-in-touch interaction to romancing in real world and wedding.